“I sometimes find, especially among my peers, that authenticity is not a…means of growing in holiness, but a convenient cover for endless introspection, doubt, uncertainty, anger, and worldliness. So that if other Christians seem pure, assured, and happy we despise them for being inauthentic.
Granted, the church shouldn’t be happy-clappy naive about life’s struggles. Plenty of psalms show us godly ways to be real with our negative emotions. But the church should not apologize for preaching a confident Christ and exorting us to trust Him in all things. Church is not meant to foster an existential crisis of faith every week”
Kevin DeYoung in Why We Love the Church: In Praise of Institutions and Organized Religion, p.89